I need to understand

I joined an Internet dating site but they changed the web design after about a month of my being a member and my computer didnt like the web design it appeared to have a lot of spam or content and i kept getting disconnected from the server, I wasn't very happy as I had paid my membership for the next 3 months but every night when i went on it i would be in the chat room and all of a sudden a pop up would appear on my screen saying sorry you have been disconnected from the server, I had no choice but to give up going on that Internet dating site.

I started a search for another similar site the only problem with that was to see if i liked the different Internet dating sites you had to sign up and with some of them when you signed up the minute you gave them your email address you were guaranteed to get a load of spam mail in your email and that was so annoying in itself as you then had to turn on the spam mail lock in your email box but by doing so you could never guarantee that the right email would go to the right place many a time i had been waiting for an email and in the end i would look in my spam mail box and there it would be mixed in with all the other junk mail, this especially happened when someone new that you didn't have in your contacts sent you something as your email would not recognise the senders email address and automatically think i was spam.

Several of the other sites i tried had problems with Server issues too i was about to give up hope of ever finding a decent site when a friend recommended one to me, it wasn't so much that i was into Internet Dating but it was a great place to meet people online and you could search to meet people your age or in your area, which was one of the things i liked the most and this new site my friend recommended was free and just as good as the other one it was now a shame that she hadnt told me earlier i could of saved myself some money.